Hey Guys, thanks for the input, this situation really put me in a weird spot, seems like, i've become more of a prick.
so the girl in question here still texts and likes my FB status's. i no longer care. This girls got issues - Health, insecurity, emotionally selfish. and shes an HB6 at best. we are all humble people here, but i can do better. also i have a lot going for me to be bothered with a looser like this. When she goes on about her "date" or any other male, i send simple texts like "Cool
".
so 2 weeks ago i met a girl in the club. lets call her HB2. i've known her for a while. was meant to meet overseas but things didn't work because of logistics.
managed to K-close the girl, lock in a date and had some good text banter. this girl used the term "AMOG'd" somewhere along the lines. pretty damn obvious she knows the game. her texts are massively DHV and she acts unimpressed but i always brush it off with humor.
so on the date night, i thought id kill time with a drink or two at a bar before meeting HB2. went to this one bar without realizing that the previous girl (HB1)'s cousin works there. word got out and i immediately get texts from her asking What the hell im up-to. it got annoying. and to finally get rid of her i told her im on a date. she handled it pretty well with a predictable "Have fun
" text.
date went well. the next day the HB 1 texts asking how the date went. i gave her the cold hard truth. "It was good, and im gunna see HB2"
HB1 got very inquisitive and hit me all sorta questions about how we met, if i was seeing her for a while and even gave me advise to take it slow. charming. i sidestepped that shit like an NFL player.
in a sense i feel like ive given HB1 a taste of her own medicine. i talk to her but on friendly terms. id much rather focus on a girl that i can get along with and have good banter. however, this new girls a real ball breaker. these insecurities, AFC'ness i've had from the previous HB1 had carried over.
second date, me and HB2 went to town, she was talking to some old sod that was trying to pick her up, i left it for a while and then when he was touchy freely i stepped in. she hit me back with "dont get jealous" comment. just brushed it off and opened some other girls. later in the night, we shifted venues and she was plastered so i had to take her back home. things escalated there to the point she was naked but we didnt do much from then on - she had an injury.
fast-forward to the next day, i bumped into her in town. asked her if she fancied coming home with me, she wasnt. she had a whole deal of other lads there that were quite keen but she assured me that shes not the sort to do one night stands.
things went down south and the convo ended somewhere where she reminded me that despite us dating, shes still single. i went away and k-closed an HB later on.
had a chat to her over text and invited her to hang, she flaked, but kept texting me, i rang her and organized a meetup the next day.
so D3 - she flaked saying shes sorry she doesn't feel like heading outta home. i just hit back with COOL. and froze it.
fast-forward to last night - shes constantly on facebook but never chats to me. i carried on doing my shit, she initiates contact :
HB2: hey
ME: hi
sorry im a tad busy here with an emergency. ill txt/call u 2mrw.
whens ya **** btw?
Her: no worries. Tomorrow
ME: b brave. u'll nail it. lemme know how it goes
HER: sure
left it there.
i think i may have one last shot here. but you can see the issues from the previous drama carried on over here.
as a result im acting distant and cold, which wont help this situation at all. any idea how to handle from here?
CHAT