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necver take advice from women
Funny . . . they are who (I hope) you're trying to pick up, which means you need to know how they think. Who better to teach you how they think . . . than THEM?
Now, Hobbit. If she's been qualifying to you for months, and you're already building attraction, you simple keep building attraction, more intensely. The comfort is already there, so the attraction and kino, if you haven't built any kino, needs to be put in there, in a big way. There's absolutely no reason you should feel ashamed or whatever of using the M3 model or of using any PU techniques, principles, what have you, on someone just because you knew them before you got into PU. The only reason for feeling "slimy" like that is if you're trying to manipulate them. If that's not the objective, there's nothing to worry about. Go for it man.