Hello all, Ive recently been going out and sarging several nights a week which is not like me. A little prehistory, I'm 21 and very good looking guy, who has no problem gaining attraction and opening, but I have trouble building rapport. I will generally open successfully and build attraction quickly. I have trouble looking for ques or when to merge to comfort building and what techniques/lines to use. Any thoughts?

Comfort and rapport are simple. You want to show her that you are not a serial rapist and that you and she have a lot in common.

Take the themes from this sentence and apply it to your conversation with her:

"I come here a lot with my FRIENDS because I like doing the same shit that you like doing, which is why we are both here right now."

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Building rapport is just finding commonalities between you both. But there is a trick to doing it. You never want her to feel TOO comfortable. If you just ask her questions and agree with her she will get bored and ull lose her. An example would be "whats your favorite movie" she says "Dumb and Dumber" you say "oh really me too that has to be one of my favorite movies we should totally watch it" -- and now what?? lol... you are building comfort with her... you both like movies and dumb and dumber and you may watch it together sometime.... but shes bored and losing attraction.

The key here is to have a good engaging conversation, let her DO THE TALKING and QUALIFY herself to YOU. Girls love to talk dude... A LOT... just as a simple question like "tell me 3 interesting things about yourslef".

Most girls actually have trouble coming up with 3.... this opens the door for negging/teasing and then you can share a little about yourself... and tell her 3 interesting things about you. (P.S. -- if this is done correctly she will ask you "oh so what are 3 interesting things about yourself" which is a IOI and then u can just talk.... dont BRAG.... just talk, open up.... just be yourself")

The one question is one I ask in all of my sets after building attraction. Its so simple... yet super effective. You can honestly talk for hours about that one question...

Hope that helps,
Gl,
Duke

"Tell me 3 interesting things about you" is a good line. It also sets you up for a good neg and rapport break. Most bimbos won't be able to come up with more than two items, so when she gets hung up on the third item, tell her: "And I thought you might actually be interesting, guess I was wrong about you." then walk away and see if she chases you.

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