| The typical high school reactions shown above is what makes high school. . . or any other social group game fairly manageable. Let's take a look at suggested strategies:
1. Luck.
2. Hang around her more. If she's in the mood and you're around her, she might pick you. (Luck)
3. You might have something others don't and she might pick you for that. (luck)
4. Study more.
5. Go to parties and look like you're having a lot of fun.
6. Be your best! (?)
7. Neg her.
8. Display 'high value'. (How? by repeating 1 through 7 over and over again?)
^These are the suggestions. . . correct? Now, I didn't write these things to make fun of young kids but to make a point. This is what EVERY HIGH SCHOOL BOY does when they see a cute chick. I'd also add:
1. Talk to each other and tell each other how they'd like to do her.
2. If they have the balls for it, buzz around her like flies to a pile of shit sneaking in random senseless chatter when they get a chance.
3. Tell her female friends, "Hook me up!"
So if the idea is to set yourself apart from the crowd, wouldn't it make sense to stop thinking like a high-schooler and start thinking like a pua? First thing is DO NOT do anything listed above and think/hope you are doing anything that helps to get closer with the girl. Above all, do not tell anybody, your buddies, or her female friends of your intentions. Do not buzz around her.
1. Be friendly enough to say hello/hi to her every time you cross her path and introduce yourself as soon as possible if you have not. It doesn't count that 'she knows you and you know her already'. Pull your hand out of your pocket and tell her, "I didn't introduce myself yet. My name is ______." - Then tell her, "See you around."
2. Regardless of her popularity, she spends more time in the day alone than with her minions. Put some thought into it and figure out when you can get one on one time. That's when you approach, chat her up, invite her to a fun event, and get her contact information. . . . (yes, just like any other pick up scenario) If you are not familiar with these things, do some research. It's not rocket science.
Get ready for the silly excuses, "I don't know/ I'll think about it." - (translation: Yes! But I'm a hot chick and I'm not easy) If this is the case, you do not ask her for the same event twice. This is what she wants. She wants you to beg. Instead, you can chat with her later about everything else but you don't reward her for the "I have all the options" prissy act by swarming her with more requests. Get yourself an alternate plan (It doesn't matter if it's with your guy friends or with female friends) To her, it's all the same: It's a day/afternoon with minus one confident guy.
Then, when you chat again, you'll eventually chat about things you did. You don't need to go out of your way to make the 'event without her' super fun or super anything. You just chat about it as it was. . . Then you invite her to another event. This time, it will be more positive than the last. . .
This is pick up. . . do whatever you want to do. Get better grades, lift weights, carry around a rabbit's foot. . . but sooner or later, if you want to get the girl, you'll have to approach her, invite her, get her contact info, etc . .
Do ^this soon. Regardless of how many chumps are hanging around your school, one kid will eventually take the necessary steps. (And it's not because this will make it impossible to get her due to the boyfriend/girlfriend thing. . .it's more because you'll hardly ever see her around. . . especially alone.)
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