A major point of mine is not having a concrete escalation plan regarding gaming women i've met/already hooked up with. I swore never to be overly robotic with ladies, but I seek a blueprint on how often/timely a potential gal should be wined and fine dined. Two former fling partners have both said "nothing happened" (to male friends), ultimately meaning I should address this.

Organising the first meet-up is no issue. I will meet a gal on a Friday, open on Facebook/text on the Sunday afternoon, fluff talk, and schedule a rendezvous. All will go swimmingly, but this is where it gets hazy. Steady escalation is natural to me, but how often should meet-ups/dates be? Once per week? As it heats up twice?

After one casual/non-threatening outing, do you escalate to something more intimate/involved?

Every girl is different, but it would be dandy to have a loose gameplan to stick too. Sending out a beacon, any takers?

-SilverTonguedFox

Your post doesn't make full sense. How often should they be "wined and dined"???

Your initial dates are really just excuses to meet a girl so you can escalate sexually. Girls call this "getting to know you". Guys call it "a precursor to fucking". If the girl is worth dating, then she's worth fucking as much as possible...or as often as you'd like to fuck her. Eventually you won't need to take her out on a date before fucking her, because you can just invite her over to hang out together and have sex. But girls will eventually catch on to this and they'll want you to take them out because they don't want to just be slampieces that sit at home all day and night. They want to live life and go out and do shit in the real world from time to time.

What you'll probably want to do is try to take them out more often, before you take them back home to smash. It doesn't always have to be official dates either. You can ask them to go with you to run some errands or get some fast food. Make them feel like you are taking them out and doing stuff. That's where you are falling short. They think you are not putting enough effort into them.

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