Had a girl tdy, talked for few hrs, had some physical contact, kinoescalatio such as rubbing her legs and wrapping her. But I don't think I pulled the trigger. By saying "pulling the trigger" I meant turn the whole thing into a sexual thing. I made it clear that I don't wanna be her friend so cut the "lets just be friend" bullshit. Told her that I don't wanna listen to her "boy friend bullshit". So I think I made it clear that I wanted more thanA friendship. But still, I didn't pull the trigger. So wht to do to pull te trigger?? This question bothered me for a long long time. Am a beginner, I realized I got a lot better since I started my game exploring. But still I have a long long way to go. So any advices brothers?

Pulling the trigger in the sense that you mean it is crossing the boundary line into sexual behavior. A lot of kino is just flirtacious. I've rubbed dudes shoulders, like my bros or whatever. Grabbed them, hugged them, high fived them, pushed and play-hit them. But it wasn't sexual. Yes, rubbing on the legs is a little more sexual, but it's not fully crossing that boundary line the way an open-mouthed kiss or titty squeeze is.

But you can't just go straight for the sexual stuff without building rapport and kino escalation. You need to calibrate and look for ioi's too. Then once you've laid the ground work, and you are getting some positive responses, you can pull the trigger and go for the kiss. The kiss should probably be the first "sexual" thing you do, then just keep escalating from there.

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