I am dating two girls and one of them is giving me trouble by locking herself up emotionally. I have been making progress and see her letting guard down little by little but I know there must be a way to speed up the process.

She doesn't like being vulnerable and is doing the age old locking her heart up and protecting herself from getting hurt. I actually like this girl, she is a quality girl and she fulfills my needs and i have had no complaints so far. She has already told me that she doesnt like the idea of liking someone and I was aware of that even before she told me(through text of course lol).

The real problem is that we both have the same style. I do the same thing. However, I am willing to give it a shot and i am trying to have a quality relationship. Last time I let my guard down with a girl that was not right for me and I ended up getting hurt, but I didn't screen properly that time. This time, I am choosing who to love and not just falling in love.

We are going on break for the month because we are in college and winter break is coming up. I thought of reading up on NLP or an interpersonal communications book in the meantime. Or something. I plan on researching. I don't know at this point.

Any tips?

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Qyestion #1. Have you fucked her yet?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Don't need to wait for answer. The answer is either, fuck her. Or it it's fuck her much harder next time.

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Exactly! Knuckle bump

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Yes, I have been having sex with this girl for the past two months. Usually on weekends but recently have bumped her up to twice/three times a week since I decided i like the girl a few weeks ago.

And yes, I have banged her hard and made sure her ass had difficulty standing up after we were done. Either way, I still don't think you can fuck a girl into loving you(even though it is possible to reduce her wandering eyes by giving it to her good). I am aware that she likes me, and it is obvious, but I am trying to get the full enchilada here. She is still holding back because she sees vulnerability as a problem and it makes sense since you see all the dudes on here who talk about oneitis and all rants about losing control over themselves and succumbing to neediness.

And this isn't a sappy plea, I just want more experience with deeper relationships to add into my belt.

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