Hey guys. This is tesseract19 from the masf forum. Apparently the site was shut down so I joined this site instead. For those of you that do not know me I don't consider myself a pick up artist or anything like that but I have moderate success rate with women. I have been learning about this stuff for about 2 years now and it has increased my confidence and close rate with women.

However.... I've been running into a SP lately. I have no problems approaching girls and sparking some attraction to the point where women are giving me their numbers before I even ask for it. I know it is recommended to take her to another location and do a mini-date but most of the times I am with some friends or she is with her friends and it is not possible. And the bar that I frequent has nothing close within walking distance anyways.

My sticking point is after I get the number and text them the next day, or after a couple days. The women's responses are completely different and it has been a real challenge to even manage to ever meet them again. The women I do end up meeting rarely go past the first "date" even though we end up kissing or escalating the situation one way or another. If I manage to f-close then I have no problem with seeing them again but this has made me somewhat pushy around the other women and I think they are sensing it.

What do you guys recommend as far what to do with the numbers you collect the night before. Should I call instead of text? How do you go from text/flirt to "let's go out". If I cannot make it happen after 3-4 days attraction dies out and I never hear back from them.

Your help is appreciated

Mystery calls that bridging the time gap. It's the period of time after you meet to when you meet again. A lot can happen during that timeframe, including them losing interest or forgetting about you entirely. It's a very common problem here. A lot of guys, myself included, get numbers but then can't convert because the girls text like retards and don't answer their phones when you call.

Mystery suggests calling the girl later that night and making a reference to an inside joke or something. Then try to arrange a meeting as soon as possible. I also think building as much attraction as possible while in set will help you to get a Day 2.

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