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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
It is
NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
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| Direct | PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2012 5:12 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Dec 16, 2009 2:06 am Posts: 54 | | Hey guys and thanks in advance for any comments.
This is most probably because of my upbringing. When there is a girl I am attracted to I always automatically revert to trying to be a gentleman/behaving chivalrous even if it is a girl that I only want to sleep with.
I know my IOIs but I guess I don't really have a clue when it comes to distinguishing between when a girl wants a relationship or just sex, or perhaps it is my job to lead to one way or another? If so, what are some key differences that I need to keep in mind in terms of how I conduct myself?
Also, perhaps another product of my upbringing I always feel really, really bad if I simply hook up and leave it at that, like if I am the worst person in the world. Why am I such a vuh-J-J?
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| TRO | PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2012 7:08 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Nov 25, 2012 8:03 pm Posts: 2 | | I'm like that too, I think its just part of you. No big deal. Do you feel bad just hooking up because you felt like you done something wrong to the girl, or because you want more with the girl?
I think your presumptions about what a girl wants will go away with time. You are thinking too far ahead.
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| Direct | PostPosted: Mon Nov 26, 2012 1:07 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Dec 16, 2009 2:06 am Posts: 54 | | I feel bad because I feel like I've done something wrong to that girl. Did you do anything to get over it?
The thing is I don't really want to totally wrong someone just to get laid which is why you won't catch me using future state projection to overcome LRM.
How can I tell the difference or steer our interactions into that way?
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