Hi all,
ive been hanging out with this girl shes a solid 9 for about 3 weeks. Weve made out and she slept at me once after we were both drunk but nothing happened. My best friend happens to be dating her best friend so lately it has been the 4 of us. She gives me huge amounts of IOI 's and says she never smiles or laughs around anyone besides me and over the weekend we went out we were sitting together and she kept taking photos of us and as I turn around she was talking to another guy. SO i left to go hook up with another girl and on Monday when i went on facebook she added lots of pics of us that she tagged me in . Whats the best way to escalate this situation as the last thing I want is to fall into the friend zone!

Find a way to f-close. There's no reason why you shouldn't have done that already. Who cares if she talks to another guy. She could be talking to Ronald McDonald for all you care. F-close her!

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

Fuck bro u so right, with some chicks its so easy but the longer it takes and the more tension that builds up just puts more pressure on you to make a move ....

I don't believe in 'rules' or 'ladders' of physical escalation, but I do think there is a basic sequence of progressive intimacy along these lines:
1. Touch arms, hands, or shoulders
2. Touch face, legs, or lower back
3. Kiss
4. Touch erogenous zones
5. Fuck
(6. Absolute perversion, step is completely optional)

I think the pressure you feel is because you feel like your 'move' has to be to skip ahead to sex without taking the steps in between. The key is to start relatively innocently and take it from there. If you're feeling pressure, you're moving to fast for your own good. So just relax, take a step back, and remember that it should be an enjoyable process for you as much as it should be for her.

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One of the most useful things you will ever learn about body language.

Def agree, some girls are easy this girl is challenging me. I sent her a random text saying " Hey stop smiling;) , lets hang out and get a drink later.....
she replied Hi :)sounds like fun! im so exhausted and still recovering from the weekend.
so i thought id neg her and said Dont be boring, I thought u were more spontaneous....il see u at 8, and dont forget chewing gum:)
Interested to see how it plays out