I open a girl. I make her laugh , I find ways to kino. we talk , I frame her as attracted to me I close, then bam! I get text flaked or she wont return my call or she she flaken the day two I arrang. Anyone else have this problem and if so how did you beat it?

A lot of girls are like that. It's not you, it's them. That's why I don't recommend relying on texting and phone numbers. You need to build attraction while your in the set, and not just rely on doing it later on down the road after a couple dates. A lot of guys will put in the requisite amount of time to build rapport with a girl, then get the number and bail with a promise of calling her sometime. The girl may have been slightly entertained in that moment, but two days later she forgets who the heck you are and sits there thinking about all the reasons why NOT to like you. Then you text her at some random moment in her life, and maybe she's on the rag, or maybe she's in the middle of waiting tables, or maybe she's on the phone with her ex. You don't have any idea of what she's doing, what her state of mind is, nor do you have any control of those things. But when she is with you in set, you have control of EVERYTHING.

Once the phone/text game starts heading south, there's little else you can do other than not come across as needy. But you need to be pre-empt all that and make sure you run a good routine on that girl before going your separate ways. I recommend going for kiss closes before the number close that way you know you made a lasting impression on her and established the requisite amount of rapport and attraction. Don't rely on SMS to get the girl.

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Okay yeah, I can see that for sure!