Basically I will have a girl I'm interested in, we will hang out and have sex a few times and then suddenly I'm not attracted to them as much anymore. I seem to be picking out their faults and things that turn me off. This stops me calling them, and wanting to see/sleep with them. At the same time I think 'I'd rather spend today working on someone else/other girls'

So to sum it up: after a bit of fun I'm putting myself off and thinking about my next target(s)

This is only a problem cuz I must seem very cold towards these girls I've slept with, and I don't have the heart to tell them I'm not attracted to them enough. That would fuck their self esteem up.

Thoughts?

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I believe in fate and karma. Both are forces of immense power, but do you know what else is?

You are.

i have exactly the same. they literally start irritating me sometimes, even though i liked them at the begin and i have no clue why.

I definitely get bored way too easily too! Sound familiar?

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I believe in fate and karma. Both are forces of immense power, but do you know what else is?

You are.

Hey. Flowers wilt. Get new flowers.

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“Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn

yea haha sounds really familiar, i try not to see a girl too much. i mean if i see a girl 3 times a week a get bored within 2 months if that long lol. i have 2 LTRs SPAM but i see them like once a week. makes it so much better

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danny123

I know exactly what you mean. I think this might be because a huge part of interaction with girls happens on Facebook. On her Facebook profile, the girl only shows her best attributes. For example a girl with a dead tooth is not going to be flashing that to much on her Facebook page, she will either keep her mouth shut when she is being photographed or edit her her pictures so she looks like she has a colgate smile.
Another way to describe this is with a picture of this apple:
*(so it turns out I can't post links yet so if you Google "half rotten apple" you'll get the point...)*

If this apple would have a Facebook profile, which side do you think it would show you? Obviously it would not be showing off it's rotten side because then nobody would want to eat it. So now you buy the apple, take a bite and then you realize it was not at all what you thought you were buying so you throw it away.

So there are two things you can do:
1. Before you take a bite of your apple, take your time to find out if it is rotten

2. Bite off the good parts and throw it away

When you loose interest in the girl, I personally think you should be honest with her and tell her. Even though it might be awkward you are probably saving her from a lot of wondering about why you don't call her or answer her messages witch isn't exactly going to boost her confidence either.