Hey guys, I apologise if I've asked this in the wrong section, but this is a serious problem and I am considering seeking medical help.

With every girl I've been with I have been unable to cum with a condom on.. I just can't build to that point. This hasn't been a serious problem until recently when I came out of a LTR, because my gf's took the pill, or some of them trusted me to pull out.

But with casual gf's and one nighters, obviously this isn't possible. I had my first girl on Saturday who wouldn't let me take it off.

I spent an hour trying, in all positions.. and as always as with all girls, didn't happen. She was more than pleased, though.

Any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks
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I have.. with my LTR the only thing that sort of worked with feather was doggy.. sorry about the detail lol not sure how else to describe.. kinda sucks 'having' to do doggy to finish.. and it was tough.. really had to concentrate.

I'm just not sure how I can fix this problem

Can you cum from oral sex? If so, is that not as satisfying to you as cumming from vaginal sex?

stop fapping.

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Fuck hotter chicks. Cumming shouldn't be a problem unless you are unattracted to the person you are with.

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Hey at least you can satisfy the girl!

I cant stand condoms, more often than not they just kill me off!

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It also depends on the quality of a girls pussy.

Nice and tight and well shaved is fine.

Loose and saggy etc and I can't even feel the sides.

A big turn off.

I have the same issue. Not "NEVER" as for you.. but I only cum like 10-15% of the time with a condom on.

My GF is not on the pill, and while most of the times we have sex without a condom, I need to pull out when I am getting close, so I still do not cum by penetrative sex.

Usually, she finishes me off with a hand-job.

I have found that certain positions are more conducive than others (e.g. sex on the floor for some reason makes it easier than sex on the bed), but in general, condom = no-orgasm.

I have yet to come up with a solution.. I may try ultra-thins, but since my GF and I have a history of breaking condoms I am afraid of the risks...

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It took my LTR a couple of months to learn how to, yes I can, but not from someone who is not a pro with the way I like it.
This girl is SMOKING hot man.. like I asked her to turn the lamp on the 2nd time because I WANT to see this girl while we're having sex, she is a 9.

*UPDATE*
Including the last night I had with her, it had been 6 days during a fap. Last night we had to verbally ask each other if we had any sexual disease, which we both don't have. She said I could take the condom off when I wanted to. I took it off, wow, amazing, best feeling in the world and no problems cuming.

It is possible to have kids from just pre-come, so I'm seriously going to have to work something out..

Still really looking for suggestions.. stop fapping is a great one, and has other extremely good benefits, aside from the mentioned above.

Cheers for your feedback and input, appreciated.

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not really. the only thing you need to be careful with (other than pulling out at the right time) is that if you cum, you do not go back in until after you peed (there are going to be sperm residues inside the canal, and those *mixed with fluid precum* for motility could do the deed - pee will clear the way so you are safe again)

I did some research since I tend to have unprotected sex with my LTR (every once in a while she will freak out and make me wear the glove but that's another story...)

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Couldn't cum with the condom on for hours sometimes. Solution found.

1. Put some lube INSIDE of the condom. I usually just do the top half of the shaft.
2. Change the way you put the condom on. Explained below.

If you are NOT circumcised
Make sure that when you put the condom on, that your foreskin can move up and down as your dick would move up and down. By leaving extra space free in the condom at the top you can do this.

If you put the condom on without enough room at the top, your foreskin will pull back during hard thrusts and stay back, killing sensation and movement.

So use lube inside the condom and make sure your foreskin can move, just the way it does when you are jacking off and bam. No more 5 hour sessions.

For those of us that are circumcised this can be a problem using condoms anyway as the glans is far less sensitive than those who are uncircumcised.

I was 'done' as an adult and there is a big difference.

A little sex ed stuff for you guys. Just because a girl "says" she don't have an STD doens't mean its true. She might not even know she has one. You can get a girl pregnant with pre-cum too. Some girls even get pregnant just by looking at them funny, so if she isn't on the pill or using condoms, or both, there is still a pregnancy risk.

As far as condoms breaking. Usually it's because they are put on wrong. Make sure to pinch the resevoir when putting it on, and give about an inch of slack on the end. You don't want any air bubbles inside the condom or it will break. Also, if there is too much friction and not enough lube they can break. It helps to re-lube during sex or change condoms, especially if you stop, rest, then start up again. And if you think your size is causing them to break, then get the magnums.

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Just look at the positive of it. You last longer, which girls will appreciate, even if its by a technicality. I've had that same problem for years, and it finally got cured with the first girl that made me finish with a condom on. solution? let her be on top and do the work. and if it still doesnt work, then make her blow you afterwards, I mean you did just have sex with her for a while, perhaps that can be your reward, just try to be safe man, overall condoms are one of the greatest inventions of the past few decades, be safe first and foremost, or you PUA days might be over.

I'd love to have a reference for this.
this looks like it...

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