I'm having trouble deciding when/how to include attraction. I rarely cold approach, in my college setting all new encounters are by social status and value.

This weekend I had a party at my house with about 75-100 people. I had a lot of fun with 3-5 girls. We took pictures together, goofed around, drank, etc. However I kept getting the feeling I was drifting into the friend zone (I don't think I'm there yet). I have good conversations, kino a lot, and most importantly have genuine fun with them. But I always wake up alone with no hook ups.

I know I'm close to be successful, I just need help with this last step!

just stop assuming you are not good enough,

you don't have to ''build attraction'', instead ''build compliance''

when things are going good with a girl, get physical, shes laughing and giggling, you throw your arm around her and say, ''this girl can laugh right here lol''

she does something cool, you give her a hug

everythings going good, point to your cheek, ''my cheek is soar, kiss it better''

she says no, you try something similar later,

just stop looking for that ''thing to say'' that will get this girl to fool around with you, compliance is what you want, not some mythical set of words to make her lead things towards sex, you escalate on her, not the other way around, if you're looking for those magical words, the magical words are ''lets go fool around'' when you have the compliance for them to be comfortable with doing that, just stop thinking of it as getting something from a girl, and you have to do XYZ in order for her to give you what you want, no... she wants to get laid, she just isn't comfortable doing that with a creeper, so get her comfortable and know that she wants it, she just may not be comfortable with it yet, so make her comfortable

just start believing in yourself, and assume they are already attracted and you are entitled to sleep with them, if they are non compliant, so what, there are tons of girls to try to escalate on, and the escalation is what will get you laid, not the magical words, the magical words just keep the girls around you and drawn to you, so you can build compliance up high enough so that when you get horny and start making them horny, they are comfortable with it and it is complied with,

if girls are being friendly and want to invest in talking with you and seem to enjoy being around you, chances are they are already attracted to you, you just don't believe in yourself enough to capitalize on it

GOOD LUCK

A motivational response as i am used to with pumpington!

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This is exactly what I was looking for man. Thanks a lot