I met this girl 2.5 months ago. I call and she hardly ever answers, she is more of a texter. She loves it, but it gets me no where. We talk every blue moon and everytime I write her off and I least expect it she calls me. Its usually when her friends are around. Anyway, she called me and invited me out. We met up and I had the venue under control. She hugged me hi and lots of keno including a kiss on the cheek. This girl was literally eating out of my hand. She was out with 4 hb7.7's and 1 fatty, so I assemble some wings to come with me and take up the slack. I know that she was in to me hard core. I would catch her watching me as I talked with other guys and so on. I even played the jealousy card by striking up conversation with another group of ladies next to our group. This drove her wild. I could have k Closed, but she was tipsy and didn't want to give her buyers remorse or loose tension. By the time I left, Her whole group of friends loved me. Even the 359lb Cock block who even with her best attempts could not ice me. Long story short, I can not get this girl out on a date never mind on the phone. I am 28 and she is 23 ish. Seriously, If I can get a date I know that I can hold my own and this girl will melt. I know she has no boy friend and that she wants a piece. I went into comfort deep. Being younger and w/o a job I think she is feeling like she has not much to offer and I feel like making her qualify makes her feel uncomfortable. I suggested hanging out, she said where? I said, You pick time, I pick place! She never really answered me straight. Maybe she is scared? Totally confused.... I need advice. Bil

well she does have control of the situation, and that is unfortunate. It doesnt sound like you have yet, but be carefull not to make yourself too available to her. there is nothing less attractive to girls, and it wil drive them away. I would, in a week or so, say "hey I'm ______ (either)now orwhenever, you should come". then if she agrees, come a few minutes late and dont appologize, you dont owe her anything. if she cant make it, thats her loss. if, after a couple weeks, it doesnt lead anywhere, and you dont get her to come out with you again, i would let her go. her loss, and there are many other girls.

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