Hello everyone!

I'm having issues number closing. The problem isn't that the girl doesn't want to give me her number. The problem is that I don't fucking ask!!!

I can open successfully and kino. However, every time I can't seem to ask for the girls number. Let me first start off with why I don't ask for a lady's number:

1) I'm in a dance club setting surrounded by ladies. I can easily DHV when I dance with the lady however I see "creepers" asking girl's number all around me and I don't want to come off like that. I know I'm not a creeper & I certainly don't look like one however whenever a guy asks for a girl's number i can tell by the girl's BL & facial expression that they don't like it when this happens. I guess I just don't want to seem like I'm one of them. Even though the lady is into me (her BL & she's fucking grinding on me) I can't seem to find the balls to ask in these situations =/

2) Whenever I go to bars, the same issue is occuring. Girls are kino'ing me & approaching me (after I've opened them and moved around from set to set) & I still can't find the balls to ask!!!!!!!!!!!! ARGHHH it's so frustrating!! :/
I feel like i should have some sort of excuse to get their digits.

For example: Yeah we should try out that sushi place. If you're up for it, we can go together, just give me your number and i'll let you know where we can meet later today.

^ that was my daygame in a cold approach. I was able to get a girl's number in daygame but that was because I had a legitimate reason for asking for her number. So I guess I like being indirect.

Yup so that's it. Not sure if I should just grow some balls and ask or if I should think of something to say ahead of time. How do you guys do it? Do you simply ask for the girls number? I'm trying to be a little indirect by making it seem like we're just going to hang out but sometimes I just can't think of where to "hang out" while im out at bars or clubs