Check this post out on my blog for a better format for reading.
http://theattractiveu.com/why-you-wont-get-every-women/
So the other day i was having a conversation with one of my good buddies on “Consistency”. He told me that he likes his game but he wants consistency.
I want to touch on this topic because i think it is VERY important and a lot of guys need to know this before taking rejection or flakes personally. I use to do this early in the game and it was a HUGE mistake.
Think about the two popular smart phone platforms of “Android” and “Apple’s IOS”. Their both are great mobile platforms but neither one has full control of all smart phone user’s. This is because the different opinions, lives, and influences of people. Neither of these platforms gets each and every customer, in fact they may lose some.
It works the same way with dating. Think about it.
You can be successful, great with women, and very attractive and yet you WILL NOT get every girl. That’s just how it works. It’s a numbers game. The more women you meet and attract the more you raise your chances of winning a loyal fan base or customer…See where im going? So don’t get caught up in getting every girl or getting blown out or rejected by someone. Now this is not to say you won’t have hot streaks where you get 8 for 8, but in reality you wont get EVERY girl you meet or approach. I see a lot of blogs and products that talk about being 100%, and the truth is there is no such thing in the dating world. Life is to big and unpredictable for that.
Think about it, out of 5 billion women in the world(or whatever the number is), how many of those women are you attracted to and may be attracted to you? Only a percentage. How many of those women will you actually have time to meet up with or they meet up with you..only a percentage…You get the point.
By “gaming” and having a tight game you ONLY raise your chances of successfully creating attraction and seducing a women. Before your chances may have been a 15% chance with an attractive women(5% + for luck) and now it may be 70%.
So if you think about is logically its all a numbers game, ignore those blogs or people trying to sell products saying “it’s not a numbers game” because in reality it IS.
You have no idea whats going on in the girl’s life you are approaching or met. She may be getting over a long-term relationship.
You don’t know whats going on in her life that may be reflecting in her interactions with people.
So when you get rejected don’t take it personally. Just remember that its numbers. It just means she isn’t meant to be in your awesome exciting life right now. So move on…NEXT. I was out the other day and i got politely rejected a few times, but i had more successes than rejections. Some girls where is happily relationships, or just have other things going on. Long story short i went home with several numbers and day 2′s time bridged. In fact, one of the HB’s coming over tonight is from that day. One of the girls lives in Florida was only her interning but wants to fly up to see and spend time with me. Funny story, one of the girls i have been talking to for a while actually found out about my involvement in the community, the story is unbelievable. I’ll make a post about it soon!
Anyway guys i wanted to make a post on this subject because it’s definitely something you MUST know before getting out there and using some of the “unstoppable” material and getting blown out or rejected.
Sluggler
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