Well i get to The point when they have given me their number but when i try to call / text them they rarely answer me or return my calls. So i've been thinking of possible reasons .

1. Not enough comfort or attraction ( in Sweden its a very Big deal just to give away number )
2 i dont really know what to do from This point really
So how do we fix this ? Thanks for help !


Nova's out.

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get more investment before you leave the set, or start calling/texting sooner after leaving the set,

basically it isn't the phone or text game that is going bad, it's your first impression, if she is not answering after giving you her number, then she is most likely not to high on interest, if she is answering but you can't get her out, then she probably just doesn't feel like she knows you well enough, if you both have a decent amount of rapport and she still won't come out, then there is a reason why she can't come out, she may be interested and comfortable enough, just has something else going on in her life that prevents her from seeing you, or is just low on interest and being friendly

so two plans of attack:

1) generate more interest by bringing more value to the set

2) get more investment from the target, then create a fear of loss that challenges her to take action

Thx brother !

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u have to understand why you are getting her number. most guys just think ok this chick is into me she is showing iois ill number close her and its in the bag. FALSE. You must use a phone number for what its intended... as a stepping stone to hanging out w her again. To do this when u are closing or a little before... make a suggestion to hang out somewhere. say "i kno this great place to get pizza... cheese is my favorite" her "omg i love cheese pizza! its my fav 2!" you "we should get it sometime... whats ur number.... im busy monday-wed but we should grab some this thur. Her "yes for sure my number is ...."

So when u text her the next day and throughout the week u can build comfort and u allrdy have a next date planned.

gl

duke