Hey guys. New here. I've heard, seen, done, and read, that by connecting with a girl emotionally, everything comes almost naturally after that.

Sometimes i can do it, but i don't really understand how i did it. I want to do it on a constant basis, like every fucking time.

Are the steps or anything? or at least things i should take note of, that can guide me into leading the talk into the emotional frame?

Or is it simply, how i present myself, that can bring the girl into that emotional frame. THANKS

By connecting with a girl emotionally, you are both being real then and techinically no longer need to game her with a few situations that may be an exception (LMR, Kino, or push/pull which can just be part of your natural behaviour so might not even be gaming). Pretty much, you can just talk about whatever because now she will like you for who you are.

The way i usually do this is by bringing up a topic she and i can both get deep about such as my usual topic: Biggest fear. This displays vulnarability on my side and allows her to get her guard down as well and allows you both to be real.

I don't think the way you present yourself will allow tere to be an emotional connection. If a guy went up to a girl and presented himself as a suave bad ass, good looking guy, he'd have attraction down. However, you must remember theres Attraction, comfort, and the final step which is sex.

To built an emotionalconnection, you need to have rapport: Trust+comfort.

If you want an example of a good emotional connection that required no game, watch sasha daygames kiss close video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8omK5D18j0

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