Hello all

So I have a question, how do you get a girl to come up to your hotel room? I will be going to a latin festival this weekend & ill be staying at a hotel.

My plan is to DHV, kino, make out, (up to this point i've had no problems with this) & ask them if they wanted to come up to my place for a drink. Is asking them to come up to my place for some alcohol a smart move? Once I can get them into the hotel room, I figure this will be instant win.

First let me begin with why I think it's an okay "move" to get them to my room. If I've built up enough attraction, women would take any excuse to go into someone's place. However, I've encountered LMR before & now I've become paranoid that asking them this simple question will not work.

What do you guys think? Am I over thinking this? What's something that you guys have used/said to get a HB to come over to your place?

Overthinking it. Just run with it, and succeed, my man.

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Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"

If asking a girl to come back up to your room is a big deal and uncomfortable for you then it will almost definitely come across when you ask. You can either go two ways with this:

1) Get the **** over it! You are a man, you like to lay women, you aren't shy about this. You aren't trying to deceive her here, you want sex and asking her to your room is going to convey this and at this point she can take it or leave it. I'd suggest that if you have done the comfort and attract phases properly then she will be all over the idea (going back to a hotel for kinky sex is a female fantasy too)

2) Use your insecurity to your advantage, you know that some people consider what you are doing is taboo but you are going along with the ride anyway. Buy into her concerns about feeling dirty etc and share them yourself just like you would when encountering resistance during escalation - two steps forward, one step back. "You are right, this is wrong and we only just met. We can't do this" *you say as you are kissing her neck and leading her by the hand to your room*


Whichever route you take the most important thing is to be strong in your frame. If she senses doubt in your tone or body language she won't be coming along for the ride. Don't act up to a certain persona if you don't feel it, it will not work!!

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TruthLoveLaugh

haha awesome thanks guys.

I just saw your post JacquesMaurice, however I noticed I used a combination of both 1 & 2 for the lay.