Serious problem that’s really fucking with my head:

I have known this girl for a little over 3 months. Talked for a month, and then hooked up on a regular basis (about 3 bangs a week) for 2 months straight. We see each other almost every day, talk for sure every day, go out to eat and out at night with each other’s friends. We both have a great time together and I like her a lot. I see her like other guys fb status’s and then then same guy will like hers back or txt her while I’m with her. I try and ignore this stuff, but when I know it’s a guy she’s previously hooked up with it really bothers me. It’s not that I don’t trust her but it wouldn’t be hard to delete text messages or just tell me she’s out with a friend.

Is 3 months too soon to ask if we are exclusive or not? I don’t wanna rush into a relationship but I need to know if I am wasting my time, money and feelings on someone who could possibly bang another guy without me knowing.
Also how is the best way to ask if we are exclusive? I think it’s took early to have the “what are we” convo. But I need a need a clever way to ask if it’s only me and her without coming off too in love….

Thanks in advance

you do not ask. it's usually the girl who asks for more. as long as you two have not negotiated anything (at her demand), you assume either one is free to sleep around without owing any explanation.

with that out of the way, if you really feel you need this girl to commit to you ASAP, try to give plausibly deniable hints of your will to commit. if she slows you down, start sleeping with another girl at least as often as you sleep with her. make sure HBhardtocommit knows about HBother. don't be stingy with providing intimate details, and make sure it looks like HBother and you have a deep emotional connection that goes beyond sex.

watch the drama. seal the deal.

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Just tell her what you want out of the relationship, you have to lead the way. And you'll know from her reaction.

Find out now, don't be scared. Like you said, who wants to be wasting time, money and feelings on a slut lol.

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