Here's the story,

Been dating this girl for 6 weeks (not exclusive) and we were into each other (so i thought) then out of no where she says she doesn't want to see me any more.

This is fine by me since I will be deployed to sea for 11 months but still I'm curious wtf went wrong?

We would chill and she'd be all over me and would always want me to touch her and what not. We never did the same routine on our dates except they all ended back at her place.... The sex was good (know for a fact I'd make her come at least 2 times every time). Had the same basic ideas on life and shit (again not trying to go exclusive since i'm going to be deployed).

And here's how she ended our little fling.

"I don't think we should do this any more since our taste in movies and music is different"(wtf) "It's not you, it's me"(right...) "but we still can be friends without the benifits" (not happening)

So my question is, is me? or was it her? or was it the fact she didn't want to get too attached knowing i'm getting deployed in 2 months?

Any thoughts or advice would be great.

Thanks

P.S. I wasn't attached to her I'm just curious how this ended so abruptly, it was quite nice banging the same chick more than 3 times before i'd next her.

it was probably you but it could have been her, you probably just didn't keep her attracted. Don't fret over it, it happens to all of us on occasion, just make sure to calibrate interest level better next time and move on for now.

The best strategy in these cases is to cut off all contact and dont engage in flirty texting with her for a while. Because as she broke up with you she will look to excuse her guilt by sending you meaningless texts to make herself feel better. In a few weeks just booty call/text her and you may be able to get some ass. If you show you are needy or forgiving/supplicating you have little chance to get anything

Basically is what i was thinking.

Here's the part that i really don't understand i got her to invest around 150 bucks while i put in 50 at max. So if she was so invested why would she call it quits? Maybe because she invested too much? Or attraction is the thing that makes or breaks a dating situation, regardless of how much she invested? Or maybe i didn't invest enough?

Personally i think it's a combination.

What do you guys think?

I fail to see how money has anything to do with this.

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I was thinking her investing that amount would keep her from backing out? Oh well fuck it. Plenty of other bitches to get at. All i was just curious about is how on Sunday we had a great time to Monday she ends it is all i'm curious about.

Maybe the bitch lead me on? Then finally got the balls to end it.

Anyways fuck her i'm done wasting my time on this post and thinking about where or how i fucked up but i think detox is correct. I lost attraction some how.