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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
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NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
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| Ice-cold | PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 7:45 pm | |
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Location: Montreal | | I need to get past this, its strange but when introduced to a woman I can work my magic but something holds me back when its a complete stranger.
A problem I noticed about my self is that I am not really a fan of cheesy openers and also I am not sure what to do next after opening.
Like I said all you need to do is introduce me to a girl and theres no problem.
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| The Wild One | PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 3:54 am | |
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| Fire | PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 4:18 am | |
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Posts: 92 | | ice-cold man just stay away from cheese openers then just go up and talk with a simple "hey hows it going" or comment on something around you for example if your waiting to get a drink at the abr say something like "holy fuck it takes forever to get a drink, how long you been standing here for??" Just be natural man the rest will come
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| BadOmn83 | PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 6:44 am | |
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Posts: 22 | | Dude don't worry about the openers. Don't put too much thought into it. If anything just say "Hey" then move into something else. Transition with I just noticed something about you...
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| PrettyBoy41 | PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 9:23 am | |
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Posts: 543 | | approach anxiety. you can find help for this alll over the internet. _________________ "He is god, he will understand. And if he does not, then he is not god, and we need not worry."
http://pickuplabs.com/blog/ Pick-Up Labs, lots of cool shit guys, free!
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| nElss0n | PostPosted: Thu Dec 20, 2007 4:04 pm | |
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Location: Sweden | | Right now i kinda have the same problem, with the difference that i know that i can open because i've done it before(before gaming).
I like the advice that's been given here because i'm not really a fan of canned openers and/or other cheesy openers. The things that has worked in the past for me has probably been commenting things to a stranger like, "Hey is that a girl or a guy?", "you/that guy/girl looks like that guy/girl in the movie..." or some of the other things that has been mentioned. I guess i should just try out next time i'm sarging.
The problem for me isn't that I feel anxious about approaching, I just don't do it... and i don't know why. It's almost as if there's some socially unwritten rule for me approaching strangers. So i'm gonna shut down my "anti-approaching" software next time and just approach.
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| mozyFresh | PostPosted: Fri Dec 21, 2007 6:37 am | |
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Location: bizarro world | | Useaully if i do get AA i just go up and say somethin anyway. or i just say to myself 'what you doin man its nothing' give myself some inspirational advice and pull myself together and walk over. There's worst things that could than getting rejected, but if i dont you never know what could of happened. Its large groups and day game when i usually end flappin it. I spose over time i'll work it out.
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