I have a real sticking point issue. It may sounds wired but my problem is that I am successful with women and I don’t know what to do with this success.

More specific: I don’t have a follow up after the close. After getting the girl I don’t know what to do with the girl. I have absolutely no clue what to do with her because I actually I am not able to offer any value for a girl in my daily life after any close or having sex.

I am running my own company for three years. On the surface my life seems very interesting and fascinating – running an interesting and growing lifestyle company. The truth is: A life as a founder of a start up company is not interesting – it’s just being busy 24/7!

I don’t have time for the needs of a girl. I am unable to listen to all their girl’s shit. I even don’t have time, energy and space to take care, be friendly or interesting. I am too busy to be interesting. I can not mind about cool dates and an exciting lifestyle. I have to run a company.

I am very easy with woman. I am getting a lot of girl’s attention, I don’t have approaching anxiety, I always hook up with the hottest girl in any location, I am getting my closes and sex. But I am starting to have a problem with that. I feel like under pressure. I am recognizing that something is changing within me. I feel a kind of anxiety by meeting woman because I know that if I am getting to know a girl and getting my close I will have a problem: If I do so I can not offer any real value for her because I am just boring and busy. That's it. Not more not less.

I am losing my interest in women I am unable to pretend that I have any interest in a girl beside sexuality and the feeling of gratification to get her. There is nothing to offer beyond that: I don’t have cool DHVs, I don’t have a cool lifestyle, I don’t have cool storytelling or a fun attraction game, I am not interested in what a woman has to share or in what she is looking for – I simply give a shit, I don’t care – I am just a busy guy running his company, that’s all I am.

Even if this sound wired – it’s really going to fuck me up.

Anybody with a similar experience or situation?

If you don't give a shit and are only worried about the gratification of sleeping with them....

Then why do you give a shit about follow up value....

Once you have your company under control and are looking to settle down and spend more time doing something other than your business and are still having a problem with this come back and post again.

You have your priorities and it just does not seem that dating etc. is one of them so be happy that you manage to pick up and F close.

May I didnt described my problem very well. I am not a native speaker so this may is a bit troublesome.

I'll try to be more specific:

I am not that kind of handsome guy who is able to get into a club, pick a women and say: "Just let`s fuck!"

I am good with women when I am able to offer value and emotional attraction. But actually I am not able to do so because I am just busy with my company. I dont have the time or the energy to be charming, funny or entertaining. I have to be focused, I can not spend time and personal investments into a women.

In pick up terms:

I am too focused to play attraction games
I am to busy to offer any comfort
I am open for seduction (hell, who's not?!)
I am not capable to offer any perspective or follow up value

My business keeps away a lot of energy and headspace you need to be good with women. And this start's to fuck me up, because normally I am very easy with woman.

I am losing my charme and my confidence because I have no emotional or personal value to offer to any woman - because I am married with my business.

What to do?

Accept it and marry my business and youporn? (not healthy)
Switch to a complete direct game with just "I dont care about youl let's fuck or shut up and leave" (not sure about this one)

Am I excusing my self out of any inbetween and just thinking in a too simple black or white? I feel like I have lost my autopilot for being good with girls.