I have been getting lots of numbers lately. Mostly from me finally biting the bullet and walking around town opening women rather than sticking to online stuff. Now I have been on a bunch of dates, but over half of all women I text with end up canceling and never making the date or any future date.

Here is my system........
1. I text every day
2. I try to only text for one session or stick to one subject. I use to try and only text for an hour or so, but almost every woman takes an hour or so to reply. So I try not to throw out more than a subject or so.
3. Leave on a good note.

What I have been noticing is that things start out nice. I got some routines that are consistent for me, but after that, things just seem to drift. Wednesday

Here is one of my big questions........My dates are always planned about a week from the number close. Do any of you guys think it's bad to just skip some days of texting? Because I just don't have that much material. Or should I just try and build more natural fluid game? But this is definitely a common problem with all my texting. Should I try to make the text last only 2-3 texts for each of us. I talk, She talks 2-3 times, then done?

Quit being so damned formulaic!

It's not how much, how many, how frequent, etc. You stop at "how" and you've answered your question.

Are you sexualizing her when you text her? Keep it sexual, and you're doing it right.

Another thing I noticed you said was that you have already scheduled a meet-up. SO WAIT. You don't have to text her every day in between. Let her think about you without her phone beeping to remind her. She WILL think about you. She's going on a DATE with you.

Game some other women or occupy yourself otherwise in the meantime.

I can tell you straight up that I sometimes read and ignore messages until later when chicks text me because I'M BUSY. I've got shit to do besides talk to her. They like that you aren't patiently waiting for them and are not dependent on their schedule. It's just showing your confidence and independence as a man.

Hope this helps. Peace.

What you are doing is giving her all of your fluff without your presence. This needs to be a package deal. You are the complete package that she agreed to go out with. If you keep texting her you are only giving her part of what you have to offer. You give her the C&F without the kino. You give her the push-pull without the body language. This is very bad for you because PUA is all about the sum of all of these parts. It isn't going to work out for you and this is why girls flake on you.

Here's what a lot of guys here think about texting: you said you make your dates one week from # close. so if you #close on saturday, don't text her till wednesday and you only do it to finalize your date plans. that's it. if she texts you before then it's fine to reply but you should be the one to end the convo. that means she is pursuing you instead of you pursuing her which is what you are doing.

Are you texting her every day because you are afraid of her losing interest? If she loses interest after a couple of days without contact while anticipating a date, then say fuck her and move on. Over-texting will make her lose interest faster than no contact.

Patience. Don't jump to the date too soon. Just have patience . Talk to her make her comfortable and get her to TRUST you...women want sex to there is just more fear.

I just tried the not talking to her every day, but still keeping up my basic rules..


1. I text every day.(Did this with one girl who told me to keep doing it)
2. I try to only text for one session or stick to one subject. I use to try and only text for an hour or so, but almost every woman takes an hour or so to reply. So I try not to throw out more than a subject or so.
3. Leave on a good note.


And the outcome was good. One of the two women I had date plans with I didn't text at all for a couple days and she had a warmer welcome than most girls I have gone on dates with. I think I will make it part of my habit. Seems a lot less stressfull too. Less to say, and less to screw up.

On another note: I am dating a girl who wants me to text every day. I am more of an escape for her, and she has told me on several occasions that she likes texting all day every day. But even on that note, I tend to stop texting after a high point in fun has been reached.

I tend to freak out some times. I noticed that I do this. All in one week I got several numbers and dates with two different girls and one I am still dating, it felt great. Then this week I have been having no luck, and already I am thinking those sinking "I'm a loser" thoughts. I think I'm more girl than I know, lol.