Im a busboy and this chick is a waitress, I was talkin to a buddy about how im gonna get her number and shit, turns out theres another waitress right there and she tells her at the end of the night I wanted her number she said"well here give it to em". I already know I messed up and look like a big ass pussy right now to her. that was yesterday

Ive been running some c/f on her for awhile and she seems to like it.

But now im at a sticking point,
I called her tonight after work to see what shes doin, it was her house phone, I kept the convo down to 2 1/2 minutes, asked her what her plans are (setting her up to believe I wanted to chill) and then told her I was planning on drinking tonight and then told her I had another call and couldnt stay on to chat.
Im wondering what to do here, im thinking a push/pull method but dont know how well it would work.

and its in a work enviorment so cant say too much shit, it may piss her off and get my ass fired. help me out please

supaflya3

Bro, Its not an advice, just my opinion. I will act that nothing happened at all. Never say anything and just wait for her to open up the topic. Ive learn it the hard way. DOnt act like needy and desperate to take her out. Play some routines to other waitress and flirt with everybody. She will find you more attractive that way than being always in her foot licking. Just have normal conversation with her. Just my 2 cents!

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thanks man, there is another girl Ive been pua'ing so we will see

today I was htting off with the other girl right infront of her, I threw in a freezeout on her and im goin to keep doing so,

today I found out from one of the cooks that he was supposed to chill with her and another chick last night and they stood him up (afc). not gonna let this happen to me, how do I move foward and transistion to the next step?

drawing blanks people?

what id do? something like the movie waiting.
throw a small party at ur house if thats not an option go out with sum coworkers and casually mention to her that shes welcome to join.
think ur on the right track and need to DHV. as for the whole negging thing i rarely do it but if u feel like shes a bit outta ur league or shes very cocky u may wanna take her down a few pegs then build her back up.

great idea, Ill mention a party coming up and let her know about it, she says shes not a drinker but we will see, she is a 7.5 in my view, though she acts like a 10 with her cockiness so im goin to throw in some negs, how do you build back up though?

what happens alot is girls streak or dye their hair blonde:
is that your real hair color?
No...[pause]
O don't worry it looks fine.
theres also more direct ones like after trying to compliment herself or steering conversation to herself say:
my aren't we conceited[in a joking way]

mystery and neil strauss talk about a bunch of them in the game

i don't really use them tho feel like negging is something thats incongruent with my personality but then again im not rolling in poon so can't talk.