I am a freshman at a college in LA which only has about 3,000 students. Point being word travels fast and wide. Anyway, in the first few days I developed a rep for being homosexual due to my clothing, some of my mannerisms, and because I'm good-looking. Since then my homosexual rep has morphed into a metrosexual/ rep after I hooked up with a few girls, and though I'm not in any sort of hole, I'm wondering if I can use the rep to my advantage, because I have been turned down because of it before (I've gotten the "I don't go out with guys prettier than me" line a couple times).

Now that I'm in a situation where there is a pretense of me with nigh everyone I meet, I'm forced to twist this into a more positive one. Any suggestions?

Hey man just be more positive in yourself and others will see that. Then you will appear confident in yourself and that will make girls like you. Pluss you have an advantage of looking different and thats good don't change it use it. And if girls are saying your to goodlooking for them. Well then my friend go after better looking women lol.

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BRENT AKA "HOLLYWOOD"

ya man, surround yourself with girls. game/flirt with them all. make it like a little posse. dont be caught outside with out like a girl either arm'n'arm with you or around their shoulders.

Thanks for the tips peeps, much appreciated. I have to remember the cardinal rule of PUAs: Never be like every other guy. Ever.

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If my post made me appear homosexual, I want you all to know that prior to sitting down at my computer I slammed 15 shots of whiskey, went balls-deep into my woman, and recited Clint Eastwood lines for 20 minutes.

Grow some facial hair. Seriously dude, metrosexual is out these days if you don't look like a male model. And even then... women appreciate good looks, but more than that, they appreciate a strong masculine character and identity. My suspicion is that women perceive you as a better friend than boyfriend. I had a good looking friend who girls never took seriously as boyfriend material because he was too metro. But they all loved him as a friend.

Eat more meat. Get a dirty hat. Wear some shitty shoes. College girls especially are looking for alpha males, and alpha males are generally not metrosexual.