so basically i have this problem and i need your opinions on what i need to do

heres the scenario:

I go to UCSD, and i met this one HB8 (a friend's friend or some crap) from LA and she comes down to visit her friend a lot. so i did normal PUA stuff, kiss closed at a frat party, and now every time she comes down we hook up.

im in LA now (i live here), and last night we went out at like 3am to some park. so we walked around and i was holding her hand, arm over shoulder, basic kino stuff. then we got to a bench and she was cuddled on me and we kissed for a bit, but then she stopped. kept up the kino, walked around a bit, then sat on another bench and i went in for the kiss. i kiss her once and she pulled away. soo what the hell is going on?

the whole time we had kino, but for some reason she just stops.

my question is am i attracting her enough? do i need more kino to arouse her or something? maybe i'm giving her the upper hand by going in for the kiss, and i was the one who called her to go out that night. is the problem that i'm acting like i'm more into it than her?

any suggestions about what i should do?


thanks

Cat string dude, she doesnt wana kiss? Then you dunt wana either, and on top of it you dunt wana hold her hand any more. Dunt call her for 2 days, if she asks why you didnt call tell her you went out with a friend or were busy.

Maybe next time you guys go out open a set in front of her to show her your social nature and how you become the center of attention. Do less kino with her not more. Reward her with kino and kiss's when she does what you want, and when shes being bad take the prize (you) away from her.

I am new so maybe im wrong but this is my opinion.

You don't want to attract. Attraction, Comfort, Seduction.

You have already attracted her, and every time she comes down you need to spend less and less time in the attraction phase. Move directly to comfort with some cool routines and DHV and then isolate, bounce her to a seduction area (if you are not there already) and f-close her. You don't need to keep the attraction, you need to move ON from the attraction.

If she stops, freezeout. However you should be the one to stop first, not her. Just stop and say "thats all you get...for now" and then talk to others....two steps forward one step back. she will be begging for it then you bounce her to your bedroom.


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i think i get it. so basically, freeze her out more? shes usually the one to break off the kino right now, so now i should be the one breaking it off right?

when she does want to kiss and goes for it or hold hands or whatever, should i let her or should i stop her then kiss her or hold hands with her when i want?

Here's one approach that works WONDERS provided you do it with some sarcasm...

If you have built enough comfort and rapport, sometimes you need to give her a taste of her own medicine. You make the move (to kiss) and let her finish. If she doesn't finish, tell her she's such a tease and that she's cut off for the rest of the evening.

If she tries to grab your hand, pull away in a playful manner and say something like "no, you're cut off. that's all you get."

This screams "CHALLENGE" to her and she will keep trying. It's almost a push/pull kino effect because you're performing a role reversal.

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You've already gotten some very good advice, so I'll be brief.
Comfort comfort comfort.
If she thinks you want it too much, her shield will go up.
If she thinks you have lots of options besides her, that's good.
If she sees that you're willing to back off, that's good.

2 steps forward, 1 back.

And if she freezes you out before you get a chance to freeze her out, pretend like it's no big deal. Get up and start walking away, let her catch up to you. Let her chase you.

Whatever you do, do NOT whine/beg/plead.

Good luck.

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one thing i love the most to do is build up the sexual tension. This falls more into the attraction phase i believe. goes something like this

be sure you're standing around some walls or on the bed, as long as shes got something supporting her, and shes "trapped." you want to move in on her and stare into her eyes. Keep eye contact for a few seconds, and really get close with her, just about to kiss, but not yet. go to the ears and whisper something, like "you're hair smells sooo good. Im trying so hard not to kiss you.." which at this point she might say "dont try so hard" (she wants it) or just keep eye contact, some body contact (grinding groins) and get some kino by massagging the lower bare back. this is a very sensitive spot for her and it will demonstrate some dhv as to the fact that you're interested in more just kissing. you know how to satisfy a girls every need. by this time, sexual tension will be built up tremendously..go for the kiss, kiss and pull back..again, eye contact...kiss again, pull back go for the neck, nibble on the ears, and what not..


hope this helps you out as it has not failed me yet. be sure to be the one to end the kissing session as she will want to come back for mre

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Possible she has a boyfriend,

She might just want you for a hookup

She might be like "Why in the world did he move to LA" (creepy stalker) Even though I'm sure you aren't, just from reading one post you sound like a good guy, but then again I don't know you.