Hey what's up guys...girls are flaking all over b/c i take too long to esculate things. I really don't know how to say "lets hang out" in not so "i'm interested in you" way. Therefore, i just don't say it..and girls that were hot on me are now flaking. Any advice on this?

when you initially meet them make sure you kino escalate and kiss close to let them know that you are interested in them physically.... you could try bouncing to a new location when you first meet them... or you could just do a fun date like monopoly at your house or twister... if they are flakey because you havent talked to them in a while talk to them on the phone for ten mins running some game to get her interested in you again... then next time you call her ask her out... if they are flakey because they arent attracted to you, then you need to fix something in your attraction phase

so no offense TMT but you arent very personal in responses, you seem really..text-bookey

anywho
Obviously it seems you're number closing so...
If you are taking too long to escalate later,that means you typically arent escalating fast enough in the initial encounter.

when building attraction remember kino kino kino, playing slap hands, thumb war, touching her knee, her touching your knee, anything physical, memory is drawn on 2 things, smell and physicality.

Think of it this way, do you remember the last stranger you talked to? Probably not, Do you remember the last jackass to push you out of the way in some location? (walmart subway, public bathroom) of course you do, why? because he bumped or pushed you

If you escalate enough on the initial encounter, then even if you wait 3 days to call, they should still be willing to go on a date. And remember, dont let them make a decision, when calling to setup a date, you decide the initial encounter and she comes, "So hey we're going to coffee this weekend" statement, not a choice

So to summarize, Escalate in you initial! Kiss close if you can but if that is not possible Kino!!! Also dont give them the chance to flake, YOU ARE THEIR DESIRE you make the date they dont choose remember Be Alpha.

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NO!! Do not kiss close, and if you do be like "Whoa stop, lets go back to your friends". Alot of times kissing a girl means you won't see her again because she'll get this mentality of "well, i already kissed him, the only next thing to do is have sex with him, and I don't want to because that will make me a slut, I barely know him"

Also... your day 2 should be planned before you eject.

"numbers are wood" - mystery

"Can I call you? We should hang out sometime." that sucks, you might get the number but that's it.

"Alright so tomorrow at 3 o'clock, meet me for coffee at this place I just talked about for 5 minutes, because they have the best coffe in the entire fucking world, and you need to try it. Give me your # in case I can't make it."

Then hit her up tomorrow like "5's no good, how about 3"

If you don't get a responce go at 5, and if she's not there it doesn't matter because you just went to get some coffee.

Doesn't anybody pay attention to the shit they watch/read?


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