so i was on my way out of a bar when one of the bartenders (hb9) grabs me and gives me a hug. so we had a lil convo that went like this:

me: ya know i see u here almost everytime im down here and u never say hi.

hb:well how come u never say hi?

me: (smiling) well how come i have to say hi first?

hb: ur being really cocky...

me: (again smiling) im just playing with u calm down

and that was that, i excused myself and never went back. usually they play right back with me that was a new one to me.

yo man i had the same situation on msn! i tried a routine on her but it didnt work and i was like: "you didnt concentrate enough, i have to think about if you have another chance (another routine"

and she just answered: "ok , bye then..."

i had to excuse myself aswell...not really goot for my game i know but i didnt know how to react

Greets JOKER

oh well, they say that pua tactics dont work on 100% of women so maybe we just found a couple that it didnt work on.

usually dont neg too hard on their personality while being straight forward. negging their clothes or something is always awesome, but there are chicks out there who will get really really offended when you neg their personality straight up. after she said you were being really cocky, you could have said something like "oh, well isnt that what all you girls like anyways?" it isnt really a neg, but it would keep the conversation going. then you could neg her about her bartending skills or something later on in the convo. you always have to be playful. you want to have the tone of voice and body language that says "im playing" in order for these ladys not to take things personal.