One of the big sticking points I have had is after getting the number. Background story in the first and secon paragraph, what I have learned in the third.

Part of the reason why this stuff works is because it is different then stuff that hasn't worked in the past. six months prior to now I had just ended a 4 year relationship, going from relationship to new girls has defiantly had its ups and downs. Getting back to the point a sticking point would be that when I get the number I immediately go into the robotic daily conversations I was in when in the relationship. Big problem and I have realized and I am working on it. I viewed this as anything where the more effort you put in you will get results back.

I think the main thing I am starting to realize is the less you try the better the results in a lot of cases. I have recently blown it with probably the most beautiful girl I have ever picked up in a bar because I tried to turn her into someone I would date. (I know this is wrong but its still the mindset that I am in).

What to take out of this is to not date them in the traditional sense of the world. The more time you have to talk early on the better the chance you will screw it up. What I am saying is be "that guy" who never returns calls or texts. Be that guy who doesn't ask a girl out on a date to a restaurant but to a dive bar with intentions. I have been so scared of girls trying to figure out my intentions to avoid being that guy that I have missed the big picture. After talking with a lot of my lady friends, girls want to see intentions and a lot of the time they like that.

Feel free to disagree but early on make it your intention to just hook up with them and move on. If you try to start something you will fuck it up.

Feel free to give opinions and alterations, just a drunk thought I had the other night while prepping for the weekend.