I met this girl in september ( i talked to her after she spent a week staring at me) and long story short, after a week she did everything possible to stay the hell away from me for 2 weeks. Eventually she settled back in to where she usually goes, near me and my friends but shes with her friends.

We didnt talk (some weeks she would stare at me but other not) and before my schools christmas break, i showed a bunch of magic tricks to my friends and they loved them. she saw me do some and loved them too. She even once just came up to me and didnt even say hi or anything and asked to see tricks.

Well after a week doing tricks, she was comfortable around me. Then right before i had to go, i asked her if she could hook up my buddy with a friend of her and she seemed weirded out when i asked but when my friend came along she was her normal self. very happy.

Didnt bother me much.

Anyways, when we came back from a two week break. she again started with the stares dis time 10x's more and 100x's more obvious. Her friends would look at me too making it even more obvious.

Then after a week, she did the same stares to me and my friend (same one who i asked if she could hook em up) but mostly me.

eventually after 2 weeks of her constantly looking at me and my friend i just came up to her and asked if she had a problem with my friend. she immediately become flirty and too me looked beautiful (she said that she didnt look at him on purpose and dose that often without knowing). her friend on the other hand stared at me with a rock hard stare.

Later that day, we walked near each other and she waited for me to look at her to say hi, which i did.

Anyways, i didnt make a move because i just didnt trust her. or in other words, i was too scared to get hurt after what happened the first time i met her.

She would continue staring at me and saying hi to me everyday with great big smiles (she does dat to all of my friends soo i couldnt say she was doing it especially for me)

anyways, eventually she stopped looking at me. like 3-4 weeks ago. and doesnt hi to me anymore but now says hi to my friends who she never say anything to before (who are next to me).

I noticed when i get near her and dont say anything, she has a sad face. and when i do say hi, she laughs. and when i act like myself with my friends near her, she even blushes (i think, probably was makeup, couldnt tell). Other then dat, if i dont say anything to her, she doesnt say anything to me and she even left her usual eating spot at lunch.

I talked to her best guy friend and he told me lots of things bout her and told he she most probably liked me despite what happened earlier and how her friends reacted to me.

That got me confident. so i tried getting her number last friday, but i couldn't because she had already left home. now ima ask her for her number tomorrow, coincidentally valentines day and despite her not looking at me anymore and her not being proactive.

I don't know if i messed up with all those missed chances or whatnot.

You guys think i still have a chance? what should i do? i need some much needed help plz. thank u!

Who knows. It sounds like you've been investing a lot in this, which I guess is typical since young guys have no game. You know what's better than asking for her number? Making plans. Stop being a pussy and do something instead of staring at her like a cowardly shy girl.

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31 and still figuring it out.

1. if you got the number:

So if you got her number on monday. Good! but don't be calling her or texting her everyday. The way you measure how long you should wait until you call/text her again is by seeing how great of an impression you left with her last. For example if you saw her in school and had a great convo, made her laugh alot, whatever. wait maybe 2 days before you call/text her.

Another thing you could do is not text or call at all until the weekend and since you go to school with her then find a way to come across her in school and game her maybe 3 times in the week then when the weekend comes you give her a call and tell her your going somewhere and that she should tag along or straight up say "your coming on a date with me tomorrow" if you text this dont add in the "LOL" it makes you look scared of her reaction to what you said. i recommend calling instead of texting tho.

2. If you didn't get the number:

If you failed or chickened out on monday. Its alright. Because you guys go to the same school, so she's not gone forever. and yes i do think she liked you when all that staring was going on. You got to learn to act on that man. Don't stop and think so much! Be in control of the situation always, girls love guys that take risks. If you take too long like you did the girl WILL move on. and at this point if she has moved on and doesn't really talk to you or stare at you then this is what you have to do.

A. if she's alone walking - start walking next to her but be a little ahead of her and talk over your shoulder. Have good body language. then say, "Hey Stranger" with a curious smile. practice in front of a mirror first. you don't want to scare her lol. then after she responds don't go with the same shit every other kid would say. be different. Be funny. but do not end up in the friend zone. if you feel you guys are talking like friends then wake up! and realize you have to go into seductive mode.

B. If she's with her friends - go with one of your friends and have him distract the others. or if you feel your up to it go on your own. talk to the friends. win them over. then tell them " you know what ive been talking to all of you and haven't even said a word to her let me borrow her for a sec" the friends will smile or giggle or say "yeah sure". Make sure the target is looking when you say this. then you take her hand without asking permission and pull her away with you else where and go from there.

Make moves. dont wait for another staring contest. Grow balls man trust me your gonna need them good luck.