Hi,

I don't have many problems, but I always have a hard time passing shit tests and bitch shields..
Can anyone give me some tips about this in general?

Ben

Shit tests aren't nearly as bad, in my opinion, as some make them out to be. A lot of time girls throw out these shit tests because they are attracted to you and they are testing you to see if you're the real deal.

I go about shit tests in a couple of ways.

Absurdify.

I take whatever the girl says and blow it up to ridiculousness to the point where it can't be true.

Example:
Girl: Are you a player or something?
Me: Just because I've got forty six phone numbers and had sex with thirty different girls in the last two hours doesn't make me a player.

When delivering such responses it's very important on how you deliver it. By nature, I am a very sarcastic person. My tonality and facial expressions easily convey that sarcasm.

Ignore anything that doesn't help you, or being unreactive.

I read this on Captain Jack's blog, and it works very well. Whenever a girl brings something up that will not help you- I.E a boyfriend objection, or here's CJ's example.

He spoke about how he commented on a girls tattoo which happened to have a very sad story dealing with her father passing away. Instead of touching on that subject and possibly killing the mood, he looked up and said, "It's kind of bright in here?"

He ignored it and completely changed the subject.

When being unreactive toward things that don't help you- as in someone calling you out for something- it shows that you don't care.. If you defend yourself it sort of passively sets the frame that you care what they think and that can be found unattractive.

This works pretty well for me.

Hope that helps.