Whats up man!
Alright i don't know what you are attracted to. Tit's and ass will always be attractive wether there on your knee OR your Shoulder. it seems like your mind is sabatoging itself. you may have some sort of fetish were the girl is not interested. First (In your case) you need to stop thinking the girl will stay all clingy. Keep the END Result in your mind. OR make a goal to have more than ONE girl all clingy, AS MANY AS YOU CAN, to show everyone your the MAN! and just have fun, You seem to be good at that anyway

you dont have room for frustration in your reality! in your life so ELIMINATE IT! Your In Control of YOUR reality!
Hope That Helps
Keep Gaming, Live Life- Scorpio