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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
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NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
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| Korleone | PostPosted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 4:36 am | |
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Posts: 29 | | ok, this is the story... I'm a good looking guy (not bragging at all) who gets women and just can't close a SDL.
I have a few ideas on why this happens. I usually don't have a good wing man to open sets with so it's pretty much usually me talking to a bunch of women in a set and I kinda don't know how to isolate from there without it seeming really weird.
anyway, I'm looking for any insight on how to get through and seal a SDL close.
side note: I get plenty of numbers and attention from women, but they seem to all want a LTR when I start talking to them. None of them just wanna have sex.
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| minsok | PostPosted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:24 pm | |
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Posts: 1084 | | If all of your woman all want LTR and no sex, that's a failure on your part. These girls are basically saying they find you interesting enough to give you a chance to grow on them, but they don't find you particularly sexy. Are these women ending up back at your place, or are you ending up at theirs? If so, then your escalation sucks. If not, then there could be a lot of different things going wrong, including not inviting them over on some pretense.
If you're trying to have sex the day you meet a girl, that is really hard outside a bar; would it really kill you to give these girls one more day?
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| Korleone | PostPosted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:46 pm | |
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Posts: 29 | | Well yeah, I do, eventually, end up at theirs or them at mine, but its not the same night tho. After I get them to the house then I f close.
Now that I think of it, I think I have a problem with getting them back to the house. Thanks man! THIS is the problem.
Now, this is the advice I'm seeking!
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| minsok | PostPosted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:00 pm | |
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Posts: 1084 | | Just ask if they want to come over to play chess, look at photos, something harmless. They'll know what's up. If you say come over for sex, that doesn't look smooth at all and kills the vibe.
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| Korleone | PostPosted: Tue Jan 11, 2011 7:11 pm | |
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Posts: 29 | | Hmmm... gotcha... this is where the advice of "have the logistics in order" comes to playcomes to play.
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| minsok | PostPosted: Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:34 am | |
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Posts: 1084 | | Right, right. If you don't plan, you plan for failure.
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