Ok, so i kinda blew it with this girl, everything was going great, i gamed her, k closed, we went out and i had an opportunity to f-close, but didnt, i dont know why? i just know i blew it...

she was still VERY attracted to me for some time but my slowness to react has moved things in a different direction, now shes giving me the cold shoulder, Shes going out and not inviting me like she used to. Shes no longer seeking my attention. And in fact, whenever shes around me she'll mention what shes doing and how much fun shes had with (blah guy)... In other words shes trying to game me, make me desperate and jealous.

What can i do to turn this around? I refuse to accept defeat, Gunwhich always said "make the ho say no" so im not gonna simply eject and walk away. I know can still turn things around.

Should I do the same back? I know other girls, in fact part of the reason shes acting like this is because shes met some of my other interests

Or should I push for a night out with her and her friends?

Do i show interests, or do I DHV and play hard to get


p.s. i work with this girl, which makes things more difficult in a way since i HAVE to see her every day

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"Be the change you wanna see in the world" -Gandhi

How many times did you have the opportunity to f-close her? i personally fuck on second dates lol... i play the hard to get and stop the "date" on a high and i leave and tell them im sorry but i dont fuck on first dates, which makes them want it even more the next time i see them... but i make sure i f-close on the second "date"... otherwise she'll think you're just looking for friends... which puts you in the friends zone lol...

i dont really know what you can do with this actual situation however learn from your mistakes and make sure you play the game right with the next girl you find

i'd just move on...

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A wise man once told me
"Bros before hoes, unless hoes have no clothes!"

well, i actually just managed to turn things around again... she just popped into my room a few hours ago for some small talk. I asked her what the pub we went to on our first night was and told her we should go again the weekend because i wanted to go dancing. After this her attitude totally changed back to what it was before, flirty and playful. Guess all she wanted was a bit of attention. She agreed by the way. Now she keeps on popping back in to flirt every once in a while. I playfully asked her why she thinks I'm a liar, and if she trusts me. to which she said that no, she doesnt trust me, and the giggled. Then I told her I was hurt and i wanted a hug. She then giggled and told me that i was being weird today, then she walked away bc she had another student. So it looks like shes back into the palm of my hand, but Im confused as to why she feels like she cant trust me. I havent actually LIED to her or anyone for that matter... She HAS seen me with other girls however... Oh well i doubt its any disability, it seems to create mystery about me and she finds that attractive.

also, I have only had one opportunity to f-close, and yeah, I saw it as a way of DHV too, things are better now i guess, looks like i created another opportunity, i just gotta get out of my head some... Act and don't think, just ACT....

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"Be the change you wanna see in the world" -Gandhi

exactly! good work mate

ok well maybe when she says "i dont trust you"... it might mean she doesnt trust you with her heart... she might think that you're just a player etc...
ok with me... i play the hard to get... dont fuck on first dates... only find classy women... it conveys that im not just looking for a root... which conveys that im a "trustworthy" person lol... and believe me... im no where fucking near a trustworthy man haha... but you must convey to them that you are... i also come off to women as trustworthy by pointing out problems in my friends relationships... because if YOU can tell her your opinion on other peoples relationships then she WONT think that you're like that... hard to explain however ill give you an example...

ok well i had this little cutie over my house the other night... we're lying in bed and i started talking about one of my mates how he constantly cheats on his gf and that i thought that was a really bad thing to do because his gf is soooooo nice and he'll never find another girl like her... hahaha totally bullshitted my arse off lol... i needed a bucket attached to my chin to catch all the bullshit dribbling off of it lol... but she bought into it and she thinks im different because im not like every other guy... bahahaha im exactly like every other bloke... i just go about it a different way... and thats what you need to do mate...

let me know how it goes

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A wise man once told me
"Bros before hoes, unless hoes have no clothes!"

well havent had another opportunity to sleep with her yet, i went to lunch with her last week and built some deep rapport with her and whatnot, but from the looks of things, it seems like she put me in the "make him wait" zone or the LTR zone...

both times ive been out with her to clubs and whatnot and shes gotten drunk, shes actually pushed me aside, i think shes trying to play me, idk what this girl wants honestly

shes actually become more of a challenge, shes been shit testing me left and right, but shes also become a bit more playful and trusting

but at the same time so have i

nonetheless, im not happy where things are, so im gonna focus more on this other girl i have been talking to, cuz im not sure where things are gonna go with this one, and shes not giving me another opp to sleep with her

so if she truly is interested, she'll chase ME

besides this other girl has been patiently asking for attention for a few days now, so she deserves a turn too

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"Be the change you wanna see in the world" -Gandhi