Hey Guys, Right there is this party next week that a few girls I’m talking to at the moment are going to and the girl I’m really into let’s call her ( Hannah ). The plan is to get all the girls I’m speaking to get to like me and speak to me all night kind of social thing if you like, It’s to get this girl I really like. I know it might not be the best way but I am open to suggestions so if you have any would be awesome.
So my plan of action is to do that and not show Hannah much interest for a while maybe be a bit of a dick if you like please tell me if I’m going about this the wrong way this is why I’m posting to get your side of the story. But it’s never as simple, this girl is an easy 8/9 and I know she’s got some lads after her at the party. So this is my biggest fall at the moment competing with other males I’m a shy guy when it comes to stuff like that I easily open women but when it involves other lads around her I flake out. It’s funny to because this guy is an absolute dick too!! So this is where I need advice on how can I get her away from these lads and get her to give me the attention chase me?
I suppose the girls who I get along with are her mates and I know they want me there because they keep asking me if I’m going all the time. So it’s like this

1. Get her mates to speak to me and make her fight for me if you like
2. be a bit of a dick with her
Now the two biggest bits
3. Get her away from the lads
4. Or make her chase me which is what I really want I managed to do this my confidence and game and happiness would rocket.
Anyway guys/girls Thanks for reading and hopefully you’ll get back to me.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

Hey man I wouldent be a dick, just Neg her, show her your not that interested, and you have all her other friends wanting to get with you. But what I read is you got a problem with there being abunch of CockBlocking AMOGS. And that your too shy to stand up to them.

What I would suggest is the social proof, then go up and pawn some of her friends off to the other guys, AMOG the CB's. If they try to physicaly domminate in a mock friendly manner like patting you on the back or putting his hand on your sholder, give an ass give response like "hey bro thanks but I don't roll that way man, but I think he (point to some other guy) is more your type. If they try to make fun of you, just take it as a compliment and ignore him, "Dude, you look like a total fagget" " Thanks man, im glad you like it," then back to talking to the girl.

Ok, something I notes was that you talk like guys here were your bosses and you are just trying to kiss their asses. You kept saying "if you like". I'm Porguese and new on any kind of forums, so This might be an American or Britan expression that I didn't know about and have a total diferente meaning of what I read, but in case I'm right, I think you should work on that.

The language you use will make difference on you on a subconscience level, so if you talk confident, you will get confident. If you talk like a submissive, you will never evolute from that. I can explain you the process more detailed if you want to.

I don't wanna hurt you or make me superior, just something that could make a difference.

P.S.: your plan seems a good plan, keep it up.

Hug,
Prince Charles.