So I've been studying and applying the game to my every day life (note: I have a very anaylitical mind), and I've been applying ways to add to these steps one by one. For instance, I've made myself more intersting, attractive and talkative. I know there are girls attracted to me, girls whom I talk to around campus. I seem famous on my campus because I say hi to everyone almost every time I walk outside (its a fairly small campus).

I have two sticking points. The first one is taking it to the next level; hanging out with her (and people in general) outside of school. Seeing as my school is a commuter school, it makes socalizing more difficult (but not impossible). I feel as if I need to have a certian amount of comfort (or attraction) built up with a person in order to have them go out of their way to see me, and while some people do, I need to take it to the next level of seeing them outside of school on weekends and the like. I need tips on taking my friendships/relationships to the next level; we go out of our way to hang out.

My second one is simply a question. Most of the girls I've talked to who have droped IOIs have talked about their current boyfriends/hook-ups. THey always appear to be "on the rocks". At first, I thought this was more genuine than it was, and then I overheard a female coworker of mine telling a male coworker to always act like he has a relationship thats on the rocks to appear more attractive. The question is, if they start mentioning relationships they're in that are on the rocks, not serious, or simply not what they want, should I take this as an IOI?