So I got out of a couple of back to back long term relationships. One of which she was the absolute love of my life! I screwed it up, not her, but that's another story. Since then I've been back in the game. But as I get older (mid thirties) I'm finding it harder and harder to get motivated and other things just start to become more important than women. I've lived life man and had a hell of a great time. I've been successful and live a naturally attractive lifestyle from having a great job and so on. When I approach women I rarely get blown out. My game is generally pretty tight and yet I am finding it difficult lately to motivate myself to do anything! I don't know why. I'm done with the club scene anymore and have been doing a lot more day game. But I've just been finding it difficult to get the motivation. I see hot women checking me out and I think to myself. I really should go game her but then I just don't. They smile and give me ioi's but I simply do nothing.

I think when you meet the love of your life and realize it was more than just a game, you lose something deep down inside. You lose the fire when you find what you wanted all along and then it's gone. Anyway about motivation. What do you all do to get it back!? Any good advice on motivating myself again? I believe I just lost it from being in love.