im going to continually write my text convos down on threads because thats the main thing i joined this site for and struggle with. i have already noticed huge improvements with my textign game. so here is a girl i met at a club via my brother. i got tons of ioi's from this chick. one which was kinda creepy saying so are you going to have me as a date to your brothers wedding. i just responded only if you get lucky. anyways heres the text convo ive had. its a hb8:

me: who is the sexy guy in the back seat? (her friend was driving her and i home and she had just given me her number before we left the club like an hour before i sent this text. this was also sent after i had been flirting with her outside of my brothers house and getting continuous ioi's)
her: i can't find one. im too distracted by the girl in front.
me: i heard she's taken
her: definitely not. who said that? lol
me: ha. well all that matters is that ur single. (right after i said this she turned around in the passenger seat and gave me a HUGE smile.
her: yaaa as long as ur single too. (she sent this right as i was getting out of the car. and immediately after i sent the previous text of her being single)
her AGAIN: aww thanks. sooo sweet of u to leave me with thiss drama and aruging on the phone. (her girfriend. drama with her bf. like the drivers bf not the hb8)
me: love you
her: pshh no u dontt. making me suffer with this.
me: of course i do. i would never lie to a girl..... i think that's what every girl wants to hear
her: lol yeahh.... I had fun tonight. you better take me to the wedding
me: wow. one step at a time. i just met you and you're already talking about getting married... girls these days
her: no im nott. i was just passing the subjuct
me: i misread what u said. haha well b4 i decide if i'm goin to take you what are you doing tomorrow night.
her: i work from 530 to 8
me: just call me when you're done with work and we'll figure out something to do
her: i might be going out to dinner for my bros bday. but ill let u know.

convo ended here

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I think the problem was the you told her to call you when shes done. You couldve said 'Text me when your done and I'll take you out somewhere special ' thats what I usually do! Girl like it when you make the plans and know whats goign on. Thats how I got my recent girl. Set a plan and stick to it. And I dont usually throw aroudn the 'i love you' even as a joke cus it can creep girls out. But you used it very well here. She seemed like shes interested and you sound like you have a close coming soon Very nice ! Needs some work thats all !

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