heres my thing.. i'm a decent looking guy even attractive, comfortable around people.. never really had a problem(i started getting into the game to understand people more and become even better socially and with girls), lots of friends, around lots of girls all the time cause im in nursing school...

so when i'm in groups or around people, i always make people laugh. most of the things i say, everyone especially girls end up laughing (alot of it is my delivery). i like to crack jokes a lot in almost every situation, but im serious and calm when needed. so i've also been negging a lot of the girls i know that i think are cute/hot.. they laugh and so does everyone else around. but what i find is that.. after awhile.. i end up being that "funny guy" or "goofy guy." i have that positive vibe, make people laugh and all.. even if you ask girls about me, most of them would say.. "awww i looove him" but in like a friendly way ya know?

i don't even know if im explaining this right.. and this may not even sound like a problem to some of you. but i guess im just wondering how to break this "Goofy guy" persona.. and instead have them all look at me in a way their panties get soaked..

well anything would help. thanks!

Humor is a gift here. Humor creates laughter. Laughter creates comfort. Comfort is half the game. The other half is sexuality. That is the component you're missing. What you need to do is start out creating a little comfort, a little laughter. If you overdo it, you basically just become a performing midget, which women think are cute and fun, but would not want to fuck. Right now, it doesn't even register to women that you are a sexual man.

So after you build that little bit of comfort, you have to switch to being playful, but not funny. In this mode, you use things like kino, sexually charged conversation, prolonged eye contact, sexy voice, and kino. When there's too much sexuality, you briefly go back to being funny to ease the tension and build comfort. It sounds like you have half the picture, but you have to present yourself as a sexual man that appreciates a woman as well, otherwise how are women supposed to know you're not just there to entertain them or be their friend? Being sexual lets women know that you have demands, too.

I have to agree with Minsok on this one.

You need to start expressing sexual interest in the women you are interactcing with more. Be up front about your desires as a man.

Explicitly state your sexual interest in her if you have to -- and remember to maintain your composure if she plays it like she thinks you're just joking again.

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I hate to bring up anything about the Mystery Method on this forum because most people have a personal vendetta against it, but if your curious you can look up the M3 model in the Venusian Arts by Mystery, how basic interactions with women start with the initial attraction that guys should build up before working on "comfort" which if you pay too much attention to could put you in the friend zone.

I like to keep this in mind that attraction if first and foremost, and I love incorporating different elements like Gambler's Speed Seduction body languages. There's nothing wrong at ALL being a funny guy but like the others pointed out, constantly being like this makes you seem more like a....performer over a sexual partner. That "spark" has to be ignited. The sooner the better. Then the hard parts over.