I have messed up two potential relationships in the last 6 months!! It happened when the first time when a girl asked me to pursue her.. and i agreed. 1 week later she magically lost attraction....

2nd time happened when after 3 months of hanging out and her being "inlove" with me i mention us being in a relationship.. she agrees and magically again 3 days later i get a phone call, her telling me that she still really likes me and logically I am an amazing guy but she just doesnt "feel it" you know "attraction" that loving feeling.

I have thought about where i went wrong.. the only thing i can think of after much thought and talking to a few female friends of mine is that I gave in to soon! I stopped being a challenge..

One female friend advised me to let her bring up the "relationship" question and when she does say " no " or say I am not sure.. as to "cement" her attraction for me.. as "someone that is a challenge" that I am valued.. then later... slowly agree and move forward.. any advice here??

I told her we should not talk for 5 weeks.. then we can see where we are emotionally .. i probably f***ed this one up but.. any advice would be appreciated

i had a similar problem when i used to ask girls out on dates--i knew they were into me all the IOIs were there but moment i asked em out directly they would turn weird had i just left things take their course they would have probably come on too me that way--.

dont know what too tell ya man just always remain a challenge,can you somehow retrieve this relationship,with careful planning and good game--i think it can be done,somehow

One female friend advised me to let her bring up the "relationship" question and when she does say " no " or say I am not sure.. as to "cement" her attraction for me.. as "someone that is a challenge" that I am valued.. then later... slowly agree and move forward..

This is great advice my friend...

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