if anyone here has read my intro thread you will know i have taken some time out of the game....im currently looking for some advice on a number of topics and im hoping you guys could help me with this

1) for some reason i keep sticking to opinion openers, and im finding their chances of sucess to be worse than i would like

2) stacking is becoming a problem for me, its not that i cant talk oor that i dont know what to say its more i struggle to move the conversation to a different thread

3) my friends seem to be becoming a barrier to my sucess, when i go out i tend to hang out with the same group of friends. we are all close, but my problem with this SPAM is that they create barriers for me, alot of the time they seem to be getting in my way (and i mean literally). A couple of my friends are socially clueless like on of them has zero confidence and it shows, he always tries to create a circle with everyone and stand in the middle of it to feel safe, another of my friends is ridiculusly needy. The friend i used to game with and in face he introduced me to it is always busy now either working ( he has 2 jobs) or meeting his new girl friend

i dnt know if the problem is with me or not, i get theh feeling it is a problem with myself rather than just theese issues

any advice would be much appriciated

I.C.

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