I'm not really sure if this is the best place to post this but since it ranges from several stages I decided to post here.

So basically I'm 21 and I haven't even kissed a girl. I've been going out with my friends lately and I have always been to afraid to approch any girl in the club. That is the first problem. The second one is that the few times I was actually talking to a girl there (because she talked to me first or she was a friend of a girl that was with a friend of mine) I didn't really know what to say at some point.

I have read "The Game" and several posts in here as well as seen a few videos. What do you recommend me to do both in the club and what should I read/view to help my game?

Thanks.

How would you talk to your friends?
And what do you say to your friends?

It shouldn't be anything really different from that, at least in your beginning stages.

When I first started doing this a while back, I didn't know what to say, now I'm talking to girls and getting them to tell me what turns them on/off, etc etc.
It all comes with practice, like riding a bike or something.
One thing I did in the beginning, and what I tell alot of beginners to do is to remember one-three generic/boring questions. ONLY one-three!
No more because then you are playing it too safe.
Take your chosen generic questions, and turn them into interesting questions congruent with you.

Some of these used to be mine, now I only ask em to toy with the girl and have fun or if I'm really interested in her. Just a note- these questions were congruent with who I was/am and may not work for you.
Questions like:

instead of "where you from"..."tell me about yourself" etc, I would ask "so whats your story?"
instead of "what do you do for a living" I ask "whats one profession you would never do?" (this ALWAYS lead to the girl asking why I'm asking. Which I would respond that I like to be different to the 99% of guys who ask her where she works etc. I'd rather know a profession that puts her off).

etc.
Sometimes you don't want to make the questions too much about her. (!!!! Important to remember)

Back when I had these questions stored away in my memory, I never even used em. Why? Because I was so confident...confident I wouldn't fail. I thought to myself - even if I run out of shit to say, I will have a few questions to ask in any situation. And because I eliminated the fear of running out of shit to say, I didn't run out of shit to say - ironic huh?

Thanks! I'll have to try that.