| Don't be needy, add value to her life, be high value yourself.
If you do those three things, you will pick her up.
For adding value to her life, just be fun, creative, funny, teasing, jokey, happy, participate in commonalities such as if you both play a sport or enjoy dancing, invite her to parties, special events etc.
For being high value, show her that you have options, perhaps a jealousy plotline, show her that you are an important person in life, Mystery's attraction switches, show her people look up to you, or that you are good at say music or sport or whatever.
Don't be afraid to not talk to her for a while. At all costs you MUST avoid friendzone. If you become her friend, you will never, ever be able to pick her up, for all you care.
Remember, you have to be willing to lose the girl to be able to pick her up.
Good luck!
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