hey guys..
i need some help getting over my jealousy problems...i dnt know if its a common problem with all other guys but i feel overly jealous when a girl i like talk/hang out with another man. the good thing thought is that i act totally cool abt it and do not show any weakness but its the feeling of jealousy inside that's killing me.
anyway i would really appreciate some help from u guys

cheers,

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I've had the same problem and still do occasionally. Realize they're just girls and when in doubt game someone else. The best thing for me is to just flirt and game with other girls it helps you realize you don't care as much as you thought. Like seriously go out and hook up with other girls!!! Theres like millions out there so go get them!

-Apollo

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Make approaches not excuses

apollo thanks man...i think thats the only logical solution..
thanks for the motivation 2

cheers,

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"Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today"

i have this problem sometimes but ive never shown it--mainly not to give them the satisfaction and that was even in my depest hardcore AFC days-

BUT--im curious

What happens if you do show it---does she play on it?
If shes trying to make you jealous and you are but dont show it---does she lose interest or think you arent interested in her ? or does this make her more interested

Well good luck and stay motivated make sure to post again on how things are going or send me a PM.

-Apollo

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Make approaches not excuses

ok here's what i came up with

a girl i talk to once tried to make me jealous and playin me ..... i countered her shit test by ignoring and pretending i didnt hear or see her with other guys and when i didnt..i pretended that i wouldnt care...but later on i got to a more intimate zone with her, i built enough comfort and stuff and she did try to make me jealous and i got mad and freezed her out...she got back into me and started chasing me more...


i guess u can exploit the jealousy test..depending on your position in the relationship u have to know when to show ur jealous and when not to..
for instance...if ur still in the attraction phase, u cant show weakness and therefore u have to pass every possible shit test..
however, when u get to the comfort or a more intimate zone, this test is no more a shit test the girl wants to be sure ur interested in her or smthn like that....
anyway i hope u get my point since it s a bit hard to explain...

cheers,

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"Dream as if you'll live forever. Live as if you'll die today"