Last month, I was casually dating a HB8. One Friday we agreed she was to stop round my house after our night on the town, however, during the course of the night, that decision changed. We enjoyed the night together, however, negativity lingered from that change, of course, I masked such emotions. On Monday Morning, I notice that our Facebook Relationship has changed from being married, to her being in a complicated relationship with some needy chap who'd be liking all her Facebook Photos. I watched on as they bantered onscreen, and for a week, I ceased communication, acting unbothered, seeking alternatives. Seven days later, I bump into her at my local bar. She wants a word. Why have I stopped speaking to her? She considered us a couple. This is madness. During the evening, I k-close several times, and matters appear to be back on track. This needy chap appears to be a joke, and she doesn't know what's going on. A week later, and her so-called 'joke' relationship ends, I continue living my DHV lifestyle, while she tries to reignite the intimacy from beforehand.

I handled matters poorly. I want you to criticise such methods, and attempt insight on the pragmatics of the situation. This isn't a case of oneitis, however, I'm still eager to learn and improve.