Ive had three different girls use this excuse on me. Granted all of them are busy, work late and party hard. Id set up the date and get flaked on, and get a call the same day saying "I fell asleep/just woke up" followed by "Im so sorry, you probably think im a bitch, I really wanted to go otherwise I wouldnt be making such a big deal about it" and "do you forgive me" I usually respond with "Its all good, shut up, lets rescedule and no" Why does this keep happening? Did I handle it correctly?

No, you didn't handle the situation correctly, you have to work this girls much more.


They are "procrastinating" a dating, because they are not motivated enough to see you.


You know? it's like asking you: hey do you want a ferrari? you will say: hell ya, i would like a ferrar ... many people want a ferrar but maybe 1 in 1000 is thinking how to get the money from a ferrari.

Same with girls "yeah , yeah, i want to see you" then, they just pass it for another day, coz they " want to see ya" but they are not motivated enough to make that effort, so delay it for another day when they will have much more time or a higher energy level.

And of course, that day will never come.