Hello,

I learned a lot stuff the last couple of months and I am pretty confident that I look good and 'game' good at the club/bars. Everything is getting better and better. I'm feeling myself 100% comfortable.

But when I dress of, I'm feeling like the 'old' me when I look into the mirror. Mostly because I'm very long and very small/thin. I know, some 'fat' guys fuck the greatest woman but still can't be confident with being naked so that kinda holds me back from having sex.

Is it reasonable girls that I'll fuck with don't mind, or can it be an issue (because they didn't noticed for example, because it might be well hidden with clothes on)?

GreekFridge

Cliffnotes;
Became a confident guy, who now can pick-up chicks. But when naked feeling as confident before I started PUA (so, not confident at all :p).

I'd say that if you work hard to get yourself in shape, you'll start to feel better about yourself and you'll probably have a positive body image. I've had issues with body image before but honestly once I started being exponentially more active, I completely lost all those problems.

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I completely agree. All it takes is a few months to change your body. You gotta either get comfortable in your own skin or do something about it that will make you more comfortable. I know some great workout plans and I know alot about this kinda stuff (It's what I'm gonna go to college for) so I could help you out if you need it.

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Eh...yeah sounds good . Tell me more!

Go look around in the 'Heath and Fitness' or whatever it's called section of the forums. There is a lot of good advice there and a lot of people who know things first hand (trainers and gym type people) that are willing to help.

Good luck and keep your focus on your goal!

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m8 if your gonna go down the working out route... just be careful. Make sure you have a specific goal not just "look good naked".

Having bigger muscles will make you look better but deep down your gonna still feel insecure and if you're not careful you could become addicted to working out. Just remember that no matter how much you work out, you may never be happy with your body, there are no garuntees.

The other thing you could do is treat it as if it were approach anxiety. Just rip the band aid off (so to speak). Next time you are in a position to have sex, or you are having sex, when you finish or if you need a drink of water or something just walk around your room naked. Trust me she isnt gonna give a shit.... and if she does give a shit she wont say anything. Plus if she doesnt wana do it again just look at the positive, you fucked her, and you didnt have to change your body to do it.

Im guessin if you actually like sum1 u'd want her to like u for more than just rock hard abs?