| Someone has recently posted about a girl telling him they have had a sex dream about them, and I have a few thoughts about this, however the original post was back in feb, so I figured id just start a new one. This is how i handle the sex dream talk when it comes up and also a conversation you can have so that she imagines doing these things with u. I believe this is the opposite of a shit test, she is asking you to prove that you can do these things to her.
In the other post (im sorry i should have checked whos post it was) the girl, a friend, told the guy about this sex dream she had even though she is seeing another guy. There are a couple of things here the first is that if she just said "I had a sex dream about you" theres not much there so you should try to find out more details "where were we?" "what did i do to u?" "how many times did i make you cum?" talk about it as if u actualli did those things to her, it will feel almost like a memory rather than a dream to her. And remember everthing she says you did to her, she will be expecting you to do the same again.
Now when she started this conversation, she was talking about a dream, you have changed it to actually being about sex. Now you can have a v. heated conversation, one which will most definately turn her on (remember she has already told you that you did these things to her)
Ask her what she likes during sex?
Common answers
- Hair Pulling (if she says this, do it, run ur hand up her neck and ur fingers into her hair and just grab, don't just pull her pony tail, thats something her brother would do)
- Kissing her neck and collarbone (depending on how much kino u have with this girl demonstrate with ur finger on your self or her, you will know it is going well if she is touching where u are telling her too)
- Gentle biting
- Nipple sucking
- etc.
whatever she says, you like it too! you love doing it to girls! Let her name one or two of the above and then u name the rest, the other two or three. This will let her know that u know what she wants and how to please her (remember she dreamt you where doing these things to her, you are proving that you know exactly how to please the way you did in her dream).
Now I find this conversation works well in a group, probably after a few drinks, but u definately dont want the girls to be drunk, they need to remember how good you are in bed Of course i am talking about having this conversation in a bar situation rather than a loud club
You have now successfully changed the sex dream conversation, into a conversation about exactly what u will do to turn her on, when you do it for real. Also you can use this conversation any time, as long as you know the people well enough for them to open up, or after u have K-Closed the target it is a good way to move for an F-Close.
Note:
-I have talked to a number of girls about sex dreams, with varying levels of honesty on their part, however one of my close, trusted and very sexual girl friends had this to say "Sometimes when a girl has a sex dream about a guy, that is enough to satisfy their lust. Most guys can't live up to what the girl has dreamed." It is for this reason that i believe this to be the opposite of a shit test.
-Guys are better than girls at sex. How can we not be? with all the porn that guys watch (or have watched before becoming PUAs) we have seen guys who get paid to make girls cum. Use their techniques, consider porn as revision for sex, and describe those things to girls.... Girls want those things doing to them but they just don't know it until you have told them thats what they want. Prove that you can be better than what they have dreamed and you will have a whole table of girls eating out of your hands.
Please give me feedback on this idea, I have worked hard on this post. I hope I have posted in the right place.
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